Happy new Year here’s to 2020 and the naughty fun it may bring…
Let’s start the year talking about female pleasure, I know how much you guys love to give and take pleasure from pleasuring a woman but what does it really mean? Pleasure is such a big subject and very diverse I recently received an email which read.
‘I want to watch you pleasure yourself and be in pleasure I want you to bring your fucking machine and biggest dildos so I can watch you pleasure yourself that will turn me on.’
So what can I take from that statement and what can we learn form that statement, well the first thing that sprung to mind is actually I would not find that pleasurable. Why I hear you ask well the answer lies in the assumptions made about what I may or may not find pleasurable and also the question arises if I was to play with myself in such a way who’s pleasure is it for if it’s not for mine. To answer the question the pleasure is clearly for the person asking for it and this is called the indirect route to pleasure by taking pleasure from watching someone else pleasure themselves or from taking pleasure from giving another person pleasure. I hear it all the time and while there is nothing wrong with taking pleasure from another the issues arise when it’s not owned properly and its framed as giving pleasure.
I understand it completely as it’s my preference to take for my own pleasure than to give pleasure, one of the reasons I am good at what I do is that in understand taking and own it but also more importantly know how to take within pre agreed boundaries and never to overtake. I feel this is bug topic that deserves an example.
To exemplify I feel a tie and tease scenario is the best option, but the ethos is not lilited to just this option. With tie ad tease its all about giving pleasure to the receiver but what I am actually doing while giving pleasure is is taking pleasure for myself though touch and though the tease. I get a huge amount of pleasure watching male arousal build and sexual energy heighten as I use my skill base to take you further to the edge and back. This for me is bliss and immense pleasure not to mention wildly satisfying. That’s just one situation I also take a lot of pleasure our of play and sensual play really dropping into my erotic self and into the hidden elements of my naughty self that I am told I am not allowed to show the world. Who says? I ask…
This brings me onto my pleasure and female anatomy of pleasure, and I thought I would talk about one of the most misunderstood female organs there is the Clitoris. You would not believe where I have had people look for the clitoris over the years or how many think it’s just a tiny organ that needs stimulating in just one place it would be like rubbing one spot on a hand and missing the rest of it, why would anyone do that and miss all the other lovely sensation that the clitoris has to offer.
So the route to female clitoris pleasure comes through exploring the full extent of the clitoris the head which is the little but that most people go for which sits just under the hood, but then there is the shaft, the clitoral legs that run down each side of my pussy and the bulbs which are not part of the clitoris but are connected and they are a large area of erectile tissue, you will find the bulbs just under my pussy lips and around my pussy opening.
The most familiar part the, the super sensate part of the clitoris the clitoral head lies just under the clitoral hood this is super sensitive imagine it in comparison to your cock head its erectile tissue and it delicate which means it needs care and attention and it needs to be treat gently not bulldozed with bristly facial hair which can feel like my clit is being rubbed with sandpaper. Now I have nothing against facial hair just use it sensitively over my clitoris rather than diving in there like a child in a candy shop and scoffing all the sweets take your time and savour the sweets it’s so much better for both if us. Imagine what it would feel with sandpaper rubbing on the head of your cock or a bristly brush and then imagine it you were gently caressed and stimulated with care and sensuous touch.
Behind the Clitoral head lies the shaft this is the bit I like stimulating probably more than my clit head it’s like a tubular structure that lies below the skin and I especially like this being pinched gently together and stroked up and down. A bit like the common masturbation stroke on men but for females its yummy and delicious and highly arousing. If you cannot find the clitoral shaft, I will gladly show you if you ask. An interesting fact about the shaft is that it’s between half and inch to an inch long it’s like a tiny version of a cock.
Don’t forget the clitoral legs you will find these at the base of the shaft and while they can be difficult to find again, I will happily guide you. If you feel to the base of the shaft two legs branch off down either side of the pussy basically anchoring the clitoris in place the amazing thing about the legs is that they are four inches long, that’s four inches of pleasure possibilities being missed.
Finally, onto the bulbs which are like an undiscovered magic place that is so often missed they are a huge area of erectile tissue in a kind of tear drop shape that lay on either side of the entrance of my pussy underneath my pussy lips. Stimulate this area and if I could purr I would start purring.. they connect at the top directly to the clitoris. The really interesting thing about the bulbs is that when they are stimulated because the erectile tissue is connected directly to the clitoris then the clitoris also gets stimulated..
So with the new year comes pleasure and a lot of it please, I amore than happy for you to take your pleasure though pleasing me all I ask is that I am pleasured in all the right places. I will be talking more about female pleasure including the subject of squirting and female ejaculation in depth this year as and when I get a chance to write but I thought I would start with the most misunderstood part of the female anatomy for purely selfish reasons of I would really welcome more pleasure in this area..
Kisses Kristina J - Huddersfield Escort, Sensual Seductress and self acclaimed Sex Geek xx
