You have probably heard the term. You may have a version of it in your head already, something about warmth, about companionship, about sex, sexual expression and sexual exploration, about an encounter that feels less transactional than you…
conscious sexuality · sexual sovereignty · 2026 The way you approach intimacy, what you reach for, what you hold back, what you feel entitled to and what you don't, was not decided by you. Most of it was handed to you long before you were old enough…
conscious sexuality · presence · desire There is a moment in every real encounter when something comes off that has nothing to do with what you're wearing. It arrives quietly, without announcement. One second it hasn't happened yet. The next second…
Personal voice · resilience · 2026 Before I write what I actually want to write, I want to say something about why I am writing it at all. Some of you have been checking in on me. Messages, quiet ones mostly, asking how I am doing. And I want you to…