50 Shades of Grey - My opinion….
I went to see 50 Shades of Grey on Friday evening with my friends
There has been allot of controversy surrounding the film with certain sectors of the community saying it shows violence towards women in the bedroom.
The film itself for me was better than expected the psychological under current and the portrayal of some of the mental aspects of BDSM were in my opinion very well done. If you are going to watch this film for the steamy sex scenes then I think you will be disappointed as it is is not as hot as I thought it would be. I did love the under current that ran through the film and totally got it…
It has annoyed me though that individuals who have no concept of BDSM or how it works have been saying 50 Shades Of Grey advocates violence towards women in the bedroom. The film very clearly shows that the dom / sub acts are consensual and it is made very clear that if at any time the submissive wants it to stop there is the use of safe words to halt play. There are more professional Female dommes in this country then Male so from a professional capacity are the huge number of Female dommes been violent towards their Male sub-missives? To answer the question to the individuals who have no concept of BDSM the answer is no. The submissive is as much in control as the domme and the domme will only play up to the submissives boundaries. Safe words are paramount but more so are trust, respect and control… These features have to come from both the submissive and the dominant and mutual trust and respect is a priority.
I accept that Sexual Domination and Submission is not for every one but for those who do not understand BDSM and the concepts what gives the right for anyone to judge and comment about subjects they clearly do not fully understand..
I personally in my private life am very much into the Fetish scene as a dominant. I am not into lifestyle domination where I control every aspect of individuals lives that is not for me and I don’t understand it. I know some people who are into that and if that’s their thing then that’s ok with me put personally I prefer the intensity of the moment, the control of the individual in session, the erotic, sexual tension and the sensual control…
Then there is the skill of delivering domination and been able to read someones body and mentally connect with them on an enhanced sexual level. There are too many people who own a whip, blindfold and handcuffs who do not understand the other elements of domination and the psychological control and skill that goes into commanding ultimate control of the sexual desires in the mind and body….
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