A series of writings by a ‘special friend’, showing the journey into kink and BDSM
I am privileged to be able to share some writings by a 'special friend', of their journey into and through kink and BDSM.
It is written from the heart with honesty and integrity and demonstrates how it was and how he felt but more importantly giving advice and feedback to anyone else who has similar kinks and desires.
For anyone new to Kink and BDSM please see my other blogs around consent, respect and intimacy.
Thank you dearly for allowing me to share I am touched to be able to do so….
Oh my god! What a figure. Sex on legs that go on forever and slim body with blonde hair to top everything off. I really would like to get to know this person and I will, very intimately, because she is my alter ego and has just been born.
I am in my Mistress’s dungeon and she had asked if I had ever dressed as a female. I said no other than a joke wearing some silk knickers once to make my children laugh and didn’t they just. Unfortunately the knickers had an erotic effect on me and I had to quickly hide away - so perhaps an omen for the future.
Anyway Mistress dressed me and when I looked in the mirror I saw a fantastic figure - just the face let her down but as I said later this session would end up costing me a lot of money as I knew I would become obsessed and want to do things properly and not just wear female clothes.
The session continued with me being caned and having an electric probe up my bum to its full charge which literally had me jumping on the table, although not far as I was tied down. Mistress then wanked my cock until I came and in one unforgettable session she actually gave me a blow job that I really did not expect. Towards the end of that first session my Mistress decided that if I was going to continue dressing then I needed a name and Lisa was duly born. Later I added the name Lashed as it reflected my preference to corporal punishment and I also liked the DJ Lisa Lashes.
As I left that day I knew my life would never be the same again. Little did I know just how much I would be affected and the effect I would have on others. I certainly did not see the roller coaster of pleasure, pain, kink and thrills that have culminated in my introduction to BDSM and Tantra some 10 years later. Will this be a life changing or mind changing development in the same way as being dressed - who knows but I am sure the journey will be interesting and fun.
However I am getting ahead of myself, there is much to share of the intervening years that show how I dealt with various situations and the lessons I learnt from them. To finish this opener I continued to see my Mistress for a number of sessions but eventually found that we could not take things any further. I will expand on that in the next chapter.
Part 2 to follow
Written by a 'Special friend'. xx
