Couples play
Advice for couples who are thinking about visiting an Escort
Well hello lovely people
This is a short blog as a piece of advice for anyone who is thinking of visiting an Escort as a couple. I use the word couple as in a pair and include within that description anyone who is in a relationship with someone who identifies with the term non binary.
I am always very pleased to welcome couples to me and even more thrilled to se people exploring their sexuality together as a couple, this is so liberating for me to be a part of and also for you as a couple. I feel it is really empowering when you are in a relationship and you are allowed to explore your own sexuality and bring in a third person to facilitate that play, it truly is an mazing thing so well done for getting this far.
The most important things I will say is safe, sane and consensual play all the way. So as a couple this means it is really important to explore what your individual boundaries are and what your joint boundaries are. To exemplify you may wish to play as a three some for the first time but intimate kissing may not feel right for you. I would encourage you to have a discussion about whatever your boundaries are before you arrive so both parties are very clear on their own boundaries and joint boundaries. It is also something I will specifically ask what are your boundaries. One of my boundaries is that when I play with a couple it is clean condoms when going from one female to another and also sterilised hands when going from one female to another. Another one of my boundaries is if I see someone been pushed by another party I will totally back off.
People often say I have no boundaries, this means to me that they don't know what their boundaries are, rather than they have no boundaries, Everyone has boundaries it is just a matter of finding them. For me playing as a couple it is very important that I know the boundaries as I would hate to over step them in anyway and this could cause friction between the couple, if not blow the relationship completely.. I really like to keep it fun and safe both physically and emotionally so everyone has a positive expereince.
The other area is consent and the ability to say yes and no to what you want and also the ability to ask for what you want. I am more than happy to work with any couples in regard to this as more often than not this is an area that can get tricky.
So for example what do you give consent for and is it what you really want. Ask yourself have you ever done anything to please someone else? I hold up my hands to this one as I am sure many of you do. So I really need to understand that both parties consent to the play and actively want to explore, but more importantly how to say yes and no for themselves.
