Is all BDSM the Same
To set the scene for my blog I should first explain there is a huge range of sexual interests that fit under the very wide heading of BDSM, I often ask my visitors to give me advane notice of what domination means to them so as to plan a session at the correct level. I do consider myself an experienced player and been into the scene in my private life where I can play at a more intense level, I really do need to know what each individual understands by the term BDSM.
In this blog I am going to focus on Sensual Domination.
At the two ends of the BDSM spectrum there are Sadism and Sensual Domination
he primary focus of sensual domination is about stimulating the mind and then taking the body to a wild new heightened sexual states.
Sadio Masochism in mainly about tearing down a sub for the Dominants pleasure. Endurance of pain and humiliation as a way of moulding the submissive behaviour. Sadism does not necessary involve sexual activities but can involve severe pain and humiliation – sometimes referred to as hard Domination. I have a element of Sadisim in me but then again I also have an element of masochism in me (a like for pain)
Sensual domination is about building up a subs confidence and unleashing the untapped sexuality of a submissive using seduction, dirty talk, eye contact, various foreplay methods, tease and tantalisation leading to intense orgasms. Sensual domination usually does involve sex but not pain or humiliation. The primary focus of sensual domination is about stimulating the mind and then taking the body to a wild new heightened sexual states. Sensual Domination is focused on developing a deep sexual hunger and intense sexual experiences.
I mainly focus on Sensual Domination and anyone new to the scene this is my starting point from there I can read your body understand your likes and take you on a journey if you will let me.
' am not a believer in BDSM means no sexual contact – for me it does mean sexual contact as it is for my pleasure and one of the biggest pleasures is sex.Sensual domination is about building up a subs confidence and unleashing the untapped sexuality of a submissive'
So can a Sadist and Sensual Domination co exist?
I believe they can yes – to exemplify I can make a sub under Sensual Domination beg to cum as I stimulate him intensely. I will deny the orgasm numerous times until I sense a hit of desperation in his requests and I sense he is about to loose complete control over his body. At that point I will deliver a sharp squeeze to his nipple or a hard slap to his legs or bottom to deliver an intense pain response in his brain and prevent him from cumming while all at the same time keep him teetering on the edge of ecstasy. It is all about the timing and been able to read an individual in an intense pleasure state.
I would also like to explain that there is not one right way or wrong way to enjoy the arts of BDSM. Choose whatever area you are into and this is the right BDSM for you. I am not a believer in BDSM means no sexual contact – for me it does mean sexual contact as it is for my pleasure and one of the biggest pleasures is sex.
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