Kristina Huddersfield Escort - How not to book me
Ok following my last blog the flip side of that is how to get on my black list and yes I do have one....
It amazes me how may people get it so wrong when booking me or spending time with me.
I have rules that I work to for my own safety, sanity and health and thought I would share a list of how to get onto my black list, or how not to get onto my black list.
I also have an clear idea of the specific type of person who I want to spend time with and by applying basic rules it makes it easier to ensure i am having a great time too.
Instant Block List
Asking for unprotected sex - instantly you will go on my do not see list bit also my do not see ever list. If you are asking me who else are you asking and getting it from so a big thank you but no thank you.
Phoning me and leaving an abusive or rude message - Not interested why would I respond to someone who is rude and abusive, would you? - Instant block list
Making a booking and not turning up - chances are I will never book you again unless you have called in advance to cancel.
Not respecting my boundaries - This is a big one for me as my boundaries are in place for my own protection, safety and sanity in what can be a crazy world. If you ask for unprotected sex you are not respecting my boundaries and some even go as far as trying to push it.
Not respecting consent - Again a massive thing of mine is consent if you overstep consent and do not respond when I let you know then I will not want to spend time with you. Would you want to spend time with someone who does not respect your consent agreements?
Threatening and abusive behaviour - Not interested in anything but beautiful encounters
Mind Games, derogatory comments and Emotional Blackmail - There is so much of this going around and aimed at sex workers its crazy, been in the industry a few years now I can see it coming and I am not interested in playing these games.
Asking for Discount - Again this is pushing my boundaries
"I am able to make sure the fantastic meetings I do have just get better and better.."
My list of little annoyances that make me question intentions
Phoning me 13 times at 3am in the morning - Its not so much the 3am in the morning its the 13 repeat missed phone calls kind of like say's neurotic, drunk or on drugs. Infact phone me 13 times repeatedly at any time of day will raise eyebrows.
Turning up with out an appointment - this would come under not respecting my boundaries and my private space.
Phoning me and declaring very abruptly "i want to come and fuck you". Rolls eyes really, have you read my profile?? Yes fucking is part of it but if you just want a fuck I am not the lady for you as I like to play.
Texting me silly messages like - hi, or texting me asking questions when the answers are clearly on my profile and website. I will refer all these texts back to my website.
Calling me when you have not read my profit or website. I put a lot of time and effort into making something fabulous for you to look at and read so please do take some time to read it.
Turning up late and not letting me know you are running late. I understand that sometimes things happen and you get held up as do I, just let me know thats all I ask. I don't stand around waiting for you if you are more than 10 minutes late and not told me chances are I have moved onto something else.
Anyone who objectifies me - It is easy to forget that i am human too!
Hanging up the phone on me - It never fails to amaze me how many people just hang up when I say I am busy not goes like this - 'Hi are you available?', me, "sorry no I am fully booked'. Before I can get the words out I get drrrr dial tone.. Yes that really makes me want o see you in the future.
"I like to be able to converse with you on a verbal level as well as a physical level"
I like to spend time with wonderful people who just want have fun, intimacy and connection without any of the bullshit..
And yes there you are out there, you I mean you, thank you for taking the time to read this I want you to know its appreciated.
I love to meet gentleman of any age who want to explore have fun and enjoy intimate moments together of quality sexual adventure. I like to be able to converse with you on a verbal level as well as a physical level and love good company. I have been very lucky to have some amazing visitors and spend some incredible time together and I really want that level of quality to continue so I am not afraid to say no if it is not right for me and in being able to do that I am able to make sure the fantastic meetings I do have just get better and better..
Kisses Kristina J - Yorkshire Escort xx
