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Manners Matter: Why Being Polite is Sexy (and Non-Negotiable, Even for Sex Workers)

Manners Matter: Why Being Polite is Sexy (and Non-Negotiable, Even for Sex Workers) by Kristina-J Huddersfield Escort

Manners Matter: Why Being Polite is Sexy (and Non-Negotiable, Even for Sex Workers)


Let’s dive into something wild today: good old-fashioned manners. I know, I know—it’s not as flashy as other topics, but stick with me here. You’d be amazed at how many people seem to forget basic decency, especially when they find out what I do for a living. Yes, I’m talking about being a sex worker. And guess what? Just because I’m in this line of work doesn’t mean I’ve signed up to deal with rude behavior. I didn’t get into this business for the joy of answering one-word texts like “hi” and “available?” in the middle of the night. Spoiler alert: no one did!

"It’s Your Job, Innit?" — No, No, and More No!

Now, let’s get to my personal favorite: “It’s your job, innit? You should put up with it!” Ah yes, of course! Silly me! I completely forgot that being a sex worker somehow means I’ve agreed to be treated like a robot or a vending machine with no feelings. Next time you’re at your dentist, try telling them, “Well, it’s your job to fix my teeth, so I’m going to bite your hand. Enjoy!” Let me know how that goes.

And while we’re on the subject, let’s put this in restaurant terms, because everyone can relate to food, right? You wouldn’t walk into a restaurant, skip the “hello” or “good evening,” and just bark, “FOOD!” at the server, expecting a gourmet meal to magically appear. Or better yet, imagine marching in, ignoring the menu, and yelling, “HOW MUCH?” without even sitting down. Spoiler alert: you’re not getting good service, and you’re probably getting the side-eye from the entire staff.

So why do people think this behavior is okay when they’re talking to me? Just because I’m a sex worker doesn’t mean I should put up with rudeness any more than a restaurant would. Here’s the truth: I’m in control of who I engage with, how I engage with them, and what kind of treatment I accept. If someone comes at me with zero manners and a side of entitlement, I’m not sticking around for dessert. In fact, I’m not even staying for the appetizers!

Boundaries? Oh, They’re Still a Thing!

Let’s talk about boundaries for a sec, because they’re crucial—and not just in a “no, you can’t borrow my Netflix password” way. Boundaries are like invisible electric fences for your sanity: cross them, and you’ll get zapped with consequences.

As a sex worker, my boundaries are non-negotiable. You don’t just get to stroll into my DMs, kick off your shoes, and start making demands like it’s your aunt’s house. No, no, no—this isn’t Thanksgiving dinner, and I’m not here to let anyone carve into my peace of mind.

Boundaries are like seatbelts—you hope you never need them, but when someone crashes into you with rudeness, you’re pretty glad you have them. Just because I’m a sex worker doesn’t mean I’m obligated to tolerate bad behavior. And let’s get something straight: being in this industry does not mean I’ve signed up to put up with whatever comes my way.

Boundaries are non-negotiable. They protect my time, my energy, and my mental health. You want to cross those boundaries? Guess what? There’s a big ol’ wall called “I’m not engaging with this nonsense” waiting for you on the other side.  Cross my boundaries, and you’ll find out real quick that I’ve got an “emotionally electrified” perimeter. One step over the line, and I’ll meet your disrespect with a look that says, “Not today. Try again with a please and thank you next time.

Meeting Rudeness Head-On: A Match Made in Sarcasm

Here’s where I have a little fun. If someone is going to be rude, guess what? I’ll match that energy. You send me a one-word text like "hi"—congrats, you’re getting the world’s driest response in return. Like, if my reply were a sandwich, it’d be all bread and no butter. You’re gonna need a drink of water after reading it.

Someone demands “address” with no intro, no please, no thank you? Well, friend, I guess you’ll be waiting for that address like it’s a bus running an hour late. See, I’m not here to educate people on manners—there are parenting books for that. But if you come at me with respect, you’ll get respect back, no problem.

One-Word Texts: The Ultimate Turn-Off

Alright, we need to talk about these one-word wonders. I don’t know what it is, but I get more “hi,” “available?” and “address” texts than a robot on customer service duty. If that’s how you start a conversation, don’t be surprised if the conversation dies right there. Imagine going on a date, and the person just sits down, looks at you, and says, “Food?” Romantic, right? Wrong!

A proper introduction is like foreplay—get it right, and we’re off to a good start. Get it wrong, and, well, it’s a hard no from me. Start with a “hello” or even a “hey, how are you?” and you’re already leaps ahead of the competition. Maybe even throw in a little “please” and “thank you” if you’re feeling adventurous. Trust me, those magic words will get you far.

Manners Are Sexy, Pass It On!

So, here’s my philosophy: manners are sexy. It’s just that simple. Want to make a good impression? Be polite. Want to make a bad impression? Shoot me a text that says “hi” with no follow-up. See how that goes for you. (Spoiler alert: it doesn’t go well.)

I treat this job like any other professional would. I have standards, I have expectations, and I definitely have boundaries. As a sex worker, I don’t care if you’re a CEO, a plumber, or a professional basket weaver—being rude is a choice, and it’s the wrong one.

In Conclusion: Don’t Be That Guy (or Girl)

At the end of the day, it’s really simple. Manners matter. Not just because they make you sound like a decent human being, but because they show respect for the person you’re talking to. And guess what? I notice when someone’s polite. And when you show me respect, I’m far more likely to engage in a positive and professional way.

So, the next time you’re thinking about firing off a one-word text like “hi” or demanding something without so much as a “please,” pause for a second. Maybe try, “Hello, how are you today?” Trust me, the difference is night and day.

And as a final word of advice: Respect is always in fashion, and it never goes out of style!

Kristina J Sensual Seductress and Creatrix of Erotic Encounters x