Permissions

Thank you to everyone who has sent in their erotic stories. I have really valued it and welcome others to send in their stories. Those who have sent them and allowed me to put them on my blog I want to say that you have given so much permission to others to explore their stories.

It really has been amazing receiving so many wonderful stories and I have another one to polish later which will being two parts.

The thing that I really love and enjoy, is not just receiving and reading them but also how the lovely people have given permission to others to explore their own erotic scenarios.

Permission is something we seek all our lives I have explored my own relationship with it in my various different traning courses but it came up really strongly for me on my last Kahuna training last year. It works a bit like this, we seek permission from others to do something, so we may look to what other people are doing before we allow ourselves to go there, wherever there is. So for example in the training we had lots of games to play and some of them we were encouraged to be playful and almost silly. It is only when I see other people doing this that I allow myself to go there as I too seek permission from other peoples behaviours in that scenario.

So I want to give a big thank you to everyone who has taken the time to write their erotic stories for having the courage to share but more importantly giving the permission to others that it is ok to go into your erotic minds and see what’s there. You see its ok me writing things and saying things but it is more powerful when other courageous explorers share their stories too, as anyone reading who resonates and are a bit shy or conflicted by their erotic mind may just allow themselves permission to go there and that in my mind is fantastic.

The stories are fabulous but it’s the reading between the lines that I love its the understanding them so when we do eventually get to play them out they are played out with understanding and meaning. It’s looking at how they work and what the turns ons are and also finding the tension in the stories as this is where the real magicis in playing them out. The thing I love about exploring eroticism is that it gives the opportunity to explore not just the light but also the dark, and it is in the dark that the real power is. The dark hides most of the time in the subconscious mind this is where the magic happens as we bring subconscious into the conscious and allow ourselves to really feel the excitement that can be found there. I am going deep now but if anyone wants to know more than just let me know I am happy to share my knowledge with you. As with anything we do the best way to explore is through play which in this case is adult play what could be more wonderful.

So in this period of reflection that we are all in and opportunity for growth and expanding awareness that has being flung on us its a great time if you feel to give your self permission to explore the wonders of what hides in your erotic mind. So please do feel free to send me your scenarios if you feel to and if there is something holding you back just notice what it is as this is great learning too. I have been spending time exploring this in myself and sometimes the thing that holds me back is I think am not good enough, or other people won’t think I am good enough which is even worse. Now I know this is rubbish and I know I am bing silly but I have noticed it and I am working on it with positive affirmations that I am good enough and I need to stop being so silly. After a period of I am not good enough thoughts and a damn good talking to myself I then pick myself up and do the thing I want to do. I especially noticed this after my last course in Kahuna massage after spending 3 weeks with the worlds best I was too busy comparing myself to others to realise that I am damn good at what I do too and don’t need to compare myself anyone.

I am sharing this with you to give you the permissions to look at yourself if you feel to and notice what is stopping you from doing the things you want to do.

Ok I may have gone off track but I feel I have made the point so back to exploring the erotic mind and the wonderful stories please do keep them coming. I can not tell you how much I am looking forward to exploring them on my return and how much I am enjoying applying my skills and knowledge to each one to really understand how and why its arousing and the play that out.

So thank you again to the people brave enough to go there and for those that have written already I want you to know that I love your satires but I love more that you are helping others to explore their erotic stories too and this is priceless and I feel deep gratitude for this and honour your courage in sharing and allow me to share it means so much.

I feel there will be some exciting playful times ahed once I am back and I am getting more and more excited by the day.

Kisses Kristina J Huddersfield Escort and sensual explorer of the erotic mind