Hi everyone hope you are staying safe. I was at home one day and thinking of suggestions for enhancing various experiences during sex. Watching porn, playing with lights, beaming/projecting sensual images on the wall and incorporating attire that play into your shared fantasies. You may share those with us.
Are interesting, because what turns one person on can be a complete turn off to someone else. Some people like the smell of body odour. Coming into nasal contact with pheromones, unencumbered, taps into their most feral, sexual instincts. Napoleon most famously sent a note to his wife Josephine that read: “Je reviens en trois jours; ne te laves pas!” “I will return in three days. Don’t wash!” I do not mind if I am requested not to wash for pleasurable reasons but I prefer my perfumes!!
Men can smell when a woman is turned on because of the aroma of her sweat and they like it, according to a new study. Men were asked to rate women's aromas swabbed during various states of arousal from hot to not, in order to determine the sexiest scent, during a survey. Certain smells elicit joy, calm, excitement, euphoria and/or nostalgia, and introducing them into your pleasure play can be very powerful. Just don’t come to bed with unwashed ass and expect a warm reception every time. Napoleon was a despotic weirdo.
The taste of sweaty/salty skin, the taste just after a shower, flavoured lubes and condoms are often overlooked. We taste with our mouths, and therefore the taste of one’s partner’s mouth can become the centre of attention. This is unfortunate, because there is so much more to devour! You know what I mean…
A week ago a friend of mine brought me a music list that featured songs that you can have sex to (it worked) The lyricism and instrumentality of music both have sensual appeal. If you don’t have a great sound system, there are other ways to enhance the sound experience. Dirty talk is one method. Thats another story.
Kristina J You may smell like Fred Flintstone but you can still make the Bed Rock xx