Talking dirty – What is it that arouses us so intently when somebody whispers in your ear dirty talk during an erotic moment?
The feeling of someone so close you can feel their breath against your ear as they whisper. The intimacy of being entangled with another in such an erotic way. There is something very naughty and deeply erotic about a shared hushed secret. I find erotic talk very arousing and I don’t meet many who don’t share the same erotic arousal from hushed dirty whispers during intimate moments.
As many of you will be aware, I strongly believe the mind is our largest sex organ. I believe that if you arouse the mind you will stimulate the body, so for me dirty talk is probably the most powerful tool for arousing the mind, closely followed by passionate sensual kissing and sensual teasing.
I have found that erotic talk during foreplay arouses the mind and heightens the body’s sexual response beyond all belief. Unfortunately, lots of people feel nervous, shy or uncomfortable about talking dirty… I have since long got over this and admit when I first started to introduce erotic, dirty talk into sessions it was challenging but now its quite natural for me and goes hand in hand with all the other sexual activities.
I have found that erotic talk during foreplay arouses the mind and heightens the body’s sexual response beyond all belief
Simple Tips for Giving Great Dirty Talk:
– Placing my lips so close they occasionally tickle the tiny hairs of your ear and letting you feel my breath as I whisper in your ear.
– Speaking in soft, low tones - so you want to move closer in order to hear what I am saying.
– Speaking very slowly - making you want to hang onto every word I am saying.
– Speak with confidence and relax. I always find calm assertive energy a turn on but also the essence of dominance. A confident tone puts me firmly in the driving seat of your mind.
– Creating a vivid mental picture in your mind using words, describing what I want to do do to you step by step.
– Purring gently in your ear is always a great way to get your attention.
Foreplay should be like a gourmet meal savoring each delicious course, not fast food you gulp down to reach the “Happy Meal Toy” at the end
When I first used erotic dirty talk I did not know what to say but now I feel very comfortable with it and have held some very successful, extremely naughty sessions that have been focused on creating a fantasy and being in the fantasy using dirty talk.
There is nothing more fun than talking through an erotic sexual fantasy and for those that want it to go a little further, adding role play in, just adds to the naughtiness of our time together.
Foreplay should be like a gourmet meal savoring each delicious course, not fast food you gulp down to reach the “Happy Meal Toy” at the end. Just like a good gourmet meal, knowing when to serve the salad, soup and cheese plate is key to making the experience flow seamlessly. Knowing when and where to introduce dirty talk is essential…
I don’t like to rush any phase of foreplay. Starting with slow soft sensual kissing. Being creative and erotic with how we interact together using or lips and mouths, varying pressure and throwing in some fun playful surprises.
Dirty talk can be used in a sensual as well as a dominant/submissive environment, I am not one who believes dominance is aggression (something someone in my private circle said to me recently and then got a two hour lecture on dominance from myself and my best friend). I much prefer dominance to be erotic and controlled even in harder dominant play sessions.
Once you admit that you have been a naughty boy, I now know you are in the right submissive sexual mindset for what I have planned next…
Here is an erotic example from a dominant perspective.
When I feel the time is right (usually indicated by how hard you are breathing or how passionately you are kissing), then I take hold of you roughly by pulling your head back by the hair or holding you still by gently grasping you by your throat with my hand. I then whisper in your ear, “Who has been a naughty boy?”… Once you admit that you have been a naughty boy, I now know you are in the right submissive sexual mindset for what I have planned next…
I then kiss my way up your neck to your ear. I describe to you, in great explicit detail, in my calm, soft voice, what I plan to do to tease and toy with you for the next few hours until you become wildly uninhibited, begging to be fucked… When I know I have you boiling over, I then love to feel between your legs to see how hard you have become…
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