Kristina J

Why do people fear digging deeper and exploring their sexuality?

What drives your dark hidden desires??

By removing the fear and shame brought about by social conditioning around sexual desires it allows you to celebrate your sexuality in its authenticity and welcome a new sense of freedom and sexual exploration. 

I have a passion for conscious kink and BDSM and will work with you to eradicate years of social conditioning to enable and allow you to explore more of your desires, more deeply as part of an enlightening celebration of your authentic self.


Concsious Kink and BDSM enables:

  • exploration of fetish, kinks and BDSM in a way that is self-aware and fully present 
  • focus on the fine tuning of awareness to each other and to ourselves wihtin the present moment 

Removing the need to supress desires, fetishes and kink but allowing them to be brought out into the open in a safe and controlled way allows us to expand into our desires.  We become the beat of the drum, rather than the drum beat, connecting on a deeper level and feeling every body shaking beat as we play the drum.


Kristina J

Conscious Kink and BDSM, when used with consent and intent, creates many more experiences than traditional BDSM.  These experiences can include creating intimacy, exploring surrender and cathartic release, experiencing ecstacy, enjoying witnessing and sharing the witness of otherss, cherishing all the beauty this creates.


Conscious Kink and BDSM is about setting and recognizing boundaries, removing expectations and asking permission.  Providing space to expand and get in touch with each other to experience a more connected state, fully engaged in the web of darker desires, exploring the physical, emotional, sexual and spiritual beings we are.

Through our time together we will create the safe space needed to allow all those years of social conditioning  to fall away, leaving only our authentic self so to experience our true nature and embodiement.

Once you are in touch with our own self we can explore communication, asking for what we really want, consciously giving and receiving, exploring sensations, re-learning trust and surrender, understanding how to say yes and no, sensing energy with each other, and creating sacred space for playfulness, kinkiness, sexiness, emotional release as some of the many outcomes of Conscious Kink and BDSM.

Those elements of our nature that have been supressed by social conditioning and social standards can be allowed to expand within us to bring a deep awareness of our true self, recognizing the hidden desires and kinks as something beautiful and worthy of celebration.  In this state we become aware of how certain objects, fabrics, movement, roleplay, power exchange and sensations make us feel, and we can explore them more deepl.

By applying mindfulness and consciousness to conscious kink and BDSM helps you understand the power of BDSM and the process of self discovery and personal transformation that will enrich your life and relationships.

The best gift to give is a lifetime full of adventures…..


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