BDSM What is that about Tell me please.
There are a vast number of reasons why someone might be into BDSM. Someone might be attracted to it for one reason, or many reasons.
BDSM is a beautiful way to give your partner or to experience all kinds of wonderful feelings, to communicate and get to know each other even more intimately, to play out your hottest fantasies and forget about shame. It brings many people happiness.
Some people are just wired that way. Others develop interests starting in childhood the evolve into BDSM. It would be like asking why some people are drawn to Hockey while others prefer tennis perhaps it is the balls.
A big reason why a lot of people like BDSM is because it's a way to experiment with control. For a submissive, having control over your life or your body taken away can be very exciting. You don't know what's about to be done to you and you don't have any way to stop it. That uncertainty and fear that comes from giving up control is a very powerful feeling. In a way it's similar to the appeal of horror movies. People watch horror movies because, on some level, being scared is fun.
Conversely, a lot of sub missives also find that surrendering control to another person is a very freeing experience. What I mean is, freedom and responsibility are two sides of the same coin. But while freedom feels good, responsibility is often stressful and taxing. By giving up freedom, a submissive may feel freed from responsibility and therefore freed from the stress that comes with it, if only for a moment. So long as they are being controlled, they no longer have to worry about paying the bills or keeping up with the Joneses or whatever. Suddenly that all becomes someone else's concern, and that makes them feel better. (makes sense).
