Birching for Buttocks
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Power positions between men and women in the real world and reflects the patriarchal subjugation of women. However, contrary to this view that flagellation is mainly a matter of men exerting power over women, it has always been my understanding that, historically, flagellation as a sexual stimulant is predominantly a matter of men desiring to be whipped by women. In the large majority of cases, the birches with which 18th and 19th century brothels were supplied were meant to be applied by female prostitutes to the buttocks of their male clients. The "English vice" is a fantasy that upper-middle-class English gentlemen have about being caned as if they were schoolboys. That is, the desire for flagellation is primarily passive and masochistic, and doesn't fit very well into the model of men as the dominant partner in sexual relations. The archetypal figure of this particular kind of sexual power is of course the dominatrix.
Of course it could be pointed out that the dominatrix etc. is a woman employed by a man to fulfil a man's desires, and she is not a subject exercising her own desires; hence the situation reflects dominance of a woman by a man despite the apparent role reversal. With regard to the important question about who really has the power in sex games between men and female prostitutes, I would have to agree that in a very general sense the man who plays the piper calls the tune. It is obvious in such situations that the services are laid on to meet the customer's demand, and at the customer's expense.
Nevertheless, I believe that the prostitute who demands payment for such services is in fact the person in control, and the male client who has to pay for them can often be a bit of a wimp who is reduced to begging for the service. She has the power derived from offering a relatively hard-to-obtain and therefore expensive service, and she increases her power by knowing how to withhold blows as well as how to administer them. It is not simply a matter of temporary role-reversal. Most flagellation of this sort takes place on the premises of the prostitute, who is pretty well in charge of things from start to finish, and who can call in her bully if the client gets out of hand. The prostitute who specializes in offering such services is usually a pretty tough character, and is often the madam who runs the entire establishment.
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