Ice Cream or BDSM
Let me start by asking you a question what's your favourite ice cream flavour? When you're young, your ice cream repertoire is usually limited to vanilla, chocolate or strawberry, maybe with sprinkles and a flake if you were a tiny bit adventurous.
As you grow up you discover a whole new world of flavours: boysenberry, cookies and cream, mint, double fudge there are countless combinations. You try a new flavour and you love it, you try a different one and it's not quite for you and then there are some flavours that you vow to never EVER taste again. But hey, at least you tried.
That's what BDSM is. It's not scary, anti-feminist or dangerous. It's just a different type of ice cream flavour that some people love and others don't. BDSM stands for Bondage & Discipline, Domination & Submission, Sadism & Mascochism… but there's no need to get caught up in definitions. Let's just say it's probably the double dark chocolate ice cream covered with melted salted caramel, topped with fresh strawberries and baileys cream (yum!).
The thing is, you don't just want to jump right in and smother your face in this decadent ice cream. You need to make sure you're well informed, prepared, comfortable and feeling confident and sexy with what you're going to do, this is after all, ice cream, and it should be a special experience for both parties (or multiple parties if you're really stepping it up). If you're ready, tie those napkins around your neck because things are about to get a lil messy.
BDSM is about fulfilling your sexual fantasies and desires in a safe and comfortable environment. For some it might be about embracing a new type of personality. For others, experimenting and trying new things. And for some others it may be their one outlet to express themselves and connect to their partner in an exciting and intimate way. Regardless of what it is for you, it will be different to everyone. So whether it's the classic vanilla, bubble gum or double dark chocolate ice cream covered with melted salted caramel, topped with fresh strawberries and baileys cream (yum!) flavour you're going for, just remember to be safe, respect your partner, be adventurous and most of all enjoy that satisfying moment of pleasure when you finish. I am not an expert on ice cream and each ice cream experience should be treated accordingly. Let's just call me an ice cream enthusiast (not in the cold weather)
Life is like an Ice cream enjoy it before it melts because I say so
