Tips for beginners
BDSM is fun for many people, and can be enjoyed in many different ways, as long as it is practiced in a healthy way. Trying something new can be a good way to learn more about yourself and your partner and can bring new and exciting experiences in your life. YES PLEASE
A physical, psychological and usually sexual power role play with consensual participants. It is important to note that BDSM does not always involve penetrative sex or orgasm. People in the BDSM community practice BDSM for a variety of reasons They love it, simples.
Like any new experience, it is a good idea to start slow. Make sure that there is good communication between you and your partner at all times, and that you feel comfortable with what you are doing.
1: Talk with your sexual partner about what you are interested in and what your fantasies are. Be open, honest, and specific about what you hope to get out of your sexual experience.
2: Listen to your client. Since a sexual relationship is a two way street, be sure to listen carefully to what your client desires and imagines as well.
3: Explore ideas together about how to achieve your fantasies. Talk about different sexual acts that you have heard of or seen that you wish to try.
4: Set boundaries. Make sure to discuss with your client what your limits are and listen to theirs. Make your consent and dissent clear to your client.
5: Go slowly. Before you begin, decide on one or two new things you will try during your scene. Build up the intensity slowly. For example, if you are trying spanking, have your partner start softly and slowly increase the intensity until you reach an enjoyable place.
6: Checking in. During the experience, make sure to ask your partner how they are feeling about the encounter. After you try out your new moves, talk it over with your partner. Describe what you liked and disliked, what you want to do more of, and have your partner share the same information.
7: Explore! Continue to try new things with your partner as you become more comfortable with the process. Also, look around you for inspiration there is a whole world of BDSM waiting for you to discover. Whether it’s through online BDSM chatrooms, websites, porn, or in real life sex clubs or bars, connecting with others who are interested in BDSM can be a great way to learn more.
IT IS BETTER TO CROSS THE LINE AND SUFFER THE CONSEQUENCES THEN TO JUST STARE AT THE LINE FOR THE REST OF YOUR LIFE xx
