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What is it called when you like being controlled?

In D/s, both parties take pleasure or erotic enjoyment from either dominating or being dominated. Those who take the superior position are called dominants—Doms (regardless of gender) or Domm

COLLARS

Many submissives in a submissive relationship wear a collar to indicate their submissive status and commitment. It can be much like a wedding band, except that only the submissive partner wears one. The traditional collar is a neck band in leather or metal, chosen, designed, and even crafted by the dominant partner. Some subs may wear a "symbolic collar", often a bracelet or ankle chain, which is more subdued than the traditional collar and can pass in non-BDSM situations. It is not uncommon for a sub to have several collars for special occasions. Collars are integral for animal role-play Many people—for example, some in the punk rock and goth subcultures wear collars for other reasons, such as fashion. So, one cannot assume that all people wearing collars are involved in BDSM. Members of the furry sect may also wear collars as a part of costuming or as fashion. Use of collars in the sexual aspects of furry lifestyle may or may not be connected to BDSM, depending on the individual's preference.

MUSIC

• The Rolling Stones UNDER MY THUMB (Mick Jagger 1966) is supposedly about a D/s relationship
• The Velvet Underground’s song Venus in furs (1967) discusses masochism and common bondage practices
• Depeche Modes song Master and Servant (1984) depicts a master and servant relationship.
• The Cool (1994) song All By Myself/a dominated Love Slave describing Cools feelings for female dominance.

LITERATURE

One of the most famous works in this area is Leopold Von Sachertorte-Masoch’s Venus im Pelz (Venus in Furs, 1869), in which the protagonist, Severin, persuades a woman, Wanda, to take him on as her slave, serves her, and allows her to degrade him. The book has elements of both social and physical submission, and is the genesis of the term "masochism.

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