Are you getting what you truly desire??
Are you free to be yourself?
I have been privileged to do the work that I do for many years and have met some wonderful people along the way. I have from the start maintained a non judgemental attitude which means I welcome you are you are without making a single judgement about looks, personality or desires. This is a real gift and something I have learnt to do over the many years of escorting. It has become apparent that my attitude is directly opposite what happens in the fucked up world we call society, socially acceptance, social stigmatisation, social sectioning it all happens in the big wide world out there. People demonstrating ignorance within themselves, passing judgment on others because the views of others don’t conform with what society tells them their views should be.'
'It has become apparent that my attitude is directly opposite what happens in the fucked up world we call society'
I often come across it being an Escort and yes I am proud of what I do and no I won’t apologise for following the path of my heart and desires instead of falling into what the world thinks I should be. I often meet people who are outraged at what I do and form opinions based on ignorance and what they have read in the media about escorts, but I ask the question do they really know what I do?? Now there is the question…
I have been told int he past, very ignorantly that what I do is morally wrong!!! Personally I don’t care and anyone saying its morally wrong will be presented with an argument. How can helping someone find their true self through sexuality be morally wrong?
Let me explain, when we are born we are born whole and true, as we grow up we are told by our elders, teachers, friends what is right and wrong and what happens as a result of this is we supress our authentic self to fit in and be accepted by society. The same happens with our sexuality, I will give you an example, when I was growing up and this will have happened to most girls they were called derogatory names such as ‘slag’, ‘whore’, ‘slut’, ‘freak’. All playground names but what does this name calling really do?? Well it teaches us to supress our natural desires to fit into society. I had a lot of boyfriends when I was growing up because I like sex so I was always being called a slag. Fortunately for me I have a fuck you attitude, i.e. if you don’t like it then that’s your problem not mine. Unfortunately a lot of young ladies and girls don’t have this and thus become damaged by the name calling which leads to deeper problems when they fall into a relationship because they become programmed that if you like sex it makes you a ‘slag’. The bizarre thing is that the name calling can come from other females, which is even more hurtful and damaging. Role the clock forward 20 years and you are in a relationship and sex is off the menu because of the suppression caused by name calling 20 years prior. I am using this as a very brief example, I could go into a lot more depth but won’t at this moment. The same happens to guys in different scenarios but hopefully you get the idea. I see many guys who come to me to ask for what they want because they cannot ask their partners for fear of judgement, rejection and ridicule from their own partners.
So we are left with a supressed society, and it takes a lot of skill and courage to tap into lifelong desires which have been supressed and bring them safely and positively out into the open and this is what makes me tick..
'People demonstrating ignorance within themselves, passing judgment on others because the views of others don’t conform with what society tells them their views should be. '
So ask yourself a few questions each three times without limitations
What is missing from my relationship(s)? Think about the sexual and relationship elements
Do I know what I really want sexually? Give yourself some time to think about this and be honest with yourself
Am I getting what I really want and are my needs being truly met? Again give yourself time to answer this and be honest with yourself
Can I give myself permission to ask for what I want?
Have a think about the questions, you don’t need to tell anyone that’s the beauty of it just be honest with yourself. Allow yourself the time and space to be honest with yourself.
Theres a lot more to doing what i do than laying on my back and sucking cock, although that does come into it and yes its lovely…….
So back to my question – ‘I often meet people who are outraged at what I do and form opinions based on ignorance and what they have read in the media about escorts, but I ask the question do they really know what I do?? Now there is the question…’
To answer the question it has been an absolute honour to open up areas of sexuality that people have supressed and allow them to flourish. To find themselves and then celebrate the sense of freedom and acceptance in an environment that is safe with myself showing encouragement and compassion. To create an environment where you are free to be yourself and ask for what you desire is truly magical and special. I get such a buzz of satisfaction when I have taken the time to find out your hidden desires and seen them play out. It is such a privilege to witness such beauty in sexual freedom even if it is just for a few hours but I know it will give courage in the future to explore deeper in the future. Further to this is the psychological effect of such a session and the positive energy it brings to all parties. Some sessions have been so emotionally charged as I have released the hidden potential that has been supressed for sometimes lifetimes and just a little but of courage and I have helped you find the wings for you to fly.
know this does not fit with the stereotypical escort stories you read in the papers, for me it is much deeper and it is the reason why I love what I do and will continue to do what I do as long as I can. I do have retirement plan to move into sexual therapy but at the minute I am getting all the qualifications to match my experience but don’t worry I have no plans to retire at the minute just making sure that when I do the transition into therapy is easy.
How can helping someone find their true self through sexuality be morally wrong
So for them that sit in judgement and call me names for what I do, ask yourself these questions:
Could you do what I do?
Do you understand your own sexuality let alone that of others?
Do you understand how our supressed sexual desired reignites through into our relationships?
Theres a lot more to doing what i do than laying on my back and sucking cock, although that does come into it and yes its lovely…….
Kristina Yorkshire Escort xx
