Results for Blog category "consent"

A violation in consent

When things go wrong I just wanted to share an email I received from one of my lovely visitors after some of my recent blogs about consent and trust. The reason for sharing this is not to put anyone off exploring play that involves power exchange but…

Feedback from a client on sexual shadow integration work

​Hello lovelies You know its funny there I was last night thinking about how to present some sexual shadow integration work I have being doing and looking at a few different people I am currently working with to bring the rejected sexual desires into…

Framing our precious time together

I am forward to my planned return and yes, I am excited…. I just wanted to give a bit of an insight into how I frame my special dates and some of the questions I may ask to find out what you would like. The purpose of this blog is to get you thinking…

Pushing the boundaries…...

For years I have had the conversation if was stuck in the jungle or on a desert island who would I want with me. I have always being very clear my two best friends because they are both practical and great a survival methods, building things, cutting…

Sensual delights

Imagination is the only weapon in the war against reality….. All good scenarios begin with imagination, allowing your imagination to run wild and be creative. Let me open up your imagination with some though provoking ideas as you take the plunge and…

Tantric Domina

I have used the term Tantric Domina on my website a number of times and over the last few weeks I have been asked what it is and what does it mean. The BDSM style that I practice is not your traditional BDSM it is a mix of tantric practices and BDSM concepts…

Trust

In order for sexual arousal to take place we need to feel psychologically safe.. This statement brings me onto trust and the importance of trust in sexual liaisons. With trust been at the heart of that statement I wanted to talk a little about two way…